Godly Success In Marriage

Be sober and be watchful.

As i sit here wondering what had happened over the last 2 ½ days at Singapore Casket, i guess it is best to write it down.

It all began when i have received new that one of dear sister has committed suicide. Yes, it is due to marital problems. Having both parties to blame for the tragedy, the innocent one is always the child, the 6 years old daughter. And hearing those things that the husband had done to her, i was so angry that i do not intend to attend any of the wake services. But thank be to God, His has melt my heart. Within me i have a clear speaking from the Lord, not only attending the wake services, but i have to be there the whole day. So, i went. Both days, 10am to 10pm, at the last day,the cremation was at 11,15.

Thru out this period, i have see and heard so many things about our dear sister and her husband, and above all, seeing her dearest sister's daughter. Looking at her, gave me lots of thought. Our dear sister has brought grieved to so many hearts. Her parent, sibling, relatives, the saints and above all, her dearest daughter. The only time her tears keeping falling from her tiny eyes was after the cremation, holding her mummy photo. She know and well aware that her mummy has already gone with the Lord.

Another thought that ran thru me was :Taking care of the child, meet the parent's day for primary school, looking at other friends parent hugging them, be it in school or in the meeting hall,etc.

“Where is my mummy? I want mummy?” Loosing hugs and kisses from her mummy, Lord!!!! (this is so difficult to continue sharing) this is something that will be with her all her life.

I shall stop here, carry on will bring tears out of my eyes. So, i pray to my Lord, my God. Be merciful and Graceful to all the family. No matter what will happened or had happened or is happening between husband and wife, Lord, may Your LOVE, and not our human love, take control of our life. Only your LOVE is able to cause us to put ourselves aside, forgive one another, husband take the initiatives to apologies to the wife, and to love our children. Be sober and watchful, do not be deceived by the old serpent. Remember, he is always there readilyy to break the marriage covenant.

posted by Lighthouse @ 4:10 PM