Godly Success In Marriage

Few things that i am still observing.......

Praise the Lord for His Mercy and Grace. It is important to trust one another cause many times things happen when some 'gossiper' come to you telling you : "Hello, i saw your hubby having dinner with a woman", "bro, i saw your wife walking with a guy" etc........ . And that how easily the devil cast a doubt in you.

I have been observing a few things all these years and i think that it is advisable for you to observe too.

• Do not dine with an opposite sex if necessary, as for me, my wife only allow "Lunch time ONLY", no dinner with another lady, be it sister in Christ, colleague or business clients. So if you have to arrange a "makan", pls arrange it during lunch time. And if you have to arrange it during dinner time, you must inform your spouse. Inform him/her the location and who are you dining with. This is to prevent giving a place for the evil one to work.
• If you have to send a sister in Christ home from the meeting, she has to sit at the rear. Yes, it sound ridiculous especially asking you to be a driver where u have to swallow your pride. But it worth it, trust me.
  
• Try not to fellowship/talk with another sex in a enclosed room. If you have to, keep the door open. Alway chat at the open space where there are "witness" around.

Trusting take a life time to learn (new job that require entertainment, new enviroment, new team to work with, etc), but it take every effort to shortened the lesson of trusting one another. The more communication you have with your spouse, the quicker you learn to know and trust your spouse. My wife talk to me everyday, the more she talk to me about her daily affairs, the more i know her, and knowing who she is with everyday, i fully trust her.

Isn't it similar of how we need to trust the Lord....... . Talk to Him everyday, you want know that He is a Trustworthy God.

Shalom

posted by Lighthouse @ 8:17 AM