Godly Success In Marriage

Courtesy begin at home.

Create Romance? create COURTESY first. This is something most of couple lost gradually in their love life. Why? we have taken one another for granted. In fact, we treat our colleague, friend, much more better than our spouse. The way we talk, the way we conduct ourselves is totally different.
We have to treat our spouse as how we treat our friend and colleague, we have to learn to be courteous to one another, do not think that : "Aiyah, not problem, afterall we are husband and wife, she is ok, would not get angry.......", if you fall under this category, pls apologized to your love one, because you have already hurt your spouse even without knowing it.
That is the reason why we find it easier to share our problems with our close friend than our spouse, because many a times when you want to share sometime to your spouse, your spouse may reply : "i busy now, can't you see what i am doing, you have no eye to see what i am doing.............." instead of : "I am so sorry, dear, can you give me a second, let me settle this, and i will get back to you, k?"
Husband and wife is so close that they became "ONE", which also mean that they are even closer than friend. So, please be courteous to one another. Be wise in your speech, your spouse are your best friend and best colleague. Treat them well.

posted by Lighthouse @ 3:44 PM