Die for her? can. Apologise to her? why should i!
It is her mistake, not mine.Recently i ask my co-worker: Hey brother, how much you love your wife? he replied seriously:"just as how Christ give His Life for the church, i will give my life for my wife" Praise the Lord. But in reality, Lord, you have to help us to live it up. And our pride have to be dealt with before we are able to do so because it is very easy to say, but to practise it out......
very, very difficult.
Just as how Bro Kian Heng shared once in the YYP meeting, as the husband is the head of the family, he is the one who has to take initiative to reconcile the relationship with his family if there are misunderstanding, quarrel and "comm down" - silent war among them.
Yeah, you may say that i was not in the wrong, why must i say sorry to my wife or my children. Remember : It was our wrong that HE died for us, and not HIS wrong.
If you apologise because you are wrong, that is right, but if you are able to apologise even though it is not your wrong, this is beyond "right", but you are doing what the head of the house hold must do, the roles of reconciliation, bring the family back to worship the Lord. Otherwise, how are you able to bring them to prayer? they may even "discount" your prayer.
Lord, You are the PEACE and MEDIATOR.
posted by Lighthouse @ 8:53 AM
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