Godly Success In Marriage

Power of Touch and Give

"Men need to get their ego stroked to know they are loved. Women need expression/assurance of love to know they are loved."

Agreed?

Just by stroking on our ego, we will know that we are loved, just by providing expression/assurance of love, they will know that they are love. Is this "the ONLY" essence to the success of marriage?

Stroking by the wife + Provision of expression/assurance of Love = LOVE

Not sure? do not think so? pls do not judge so early. In order for us to agreed or disagreed with the above formula, you have to try it.

Give a thought, wives, how to "stroke" your husband ego? how to provide the expression/assurance of LOVE to your wife, husband?

For Wife
Definition of "stroke" (by New Collin Dictionary) : to touch, brush, or caress lightly or gently.
My experience : I fully agreed. Men need the touch of Love (do not estimate the Power of Touch, sister), look at our Lord Jesus on earth, He himself is the "Touch of Love". He has touch the eye of sinner that they may see, many were saved by His touch.

For Husband
Definition of "expression" (by New Collin Dictionary) : the act or an instance of transforming ideas into words.
Do not tell your wife : "already husband and wife, still need to say "i love you", so old fashion....." Brothers, you have to tell your wife "verbally, soft and clear: I Love You". Hopefully it's not just one a year during your wedding anniversary.

Definition of "assurance" (by New Collin Dictionary) : a promise or pledge of support; freedom from doubt; certainty.
That is why communication comes into pictures," doubt" comes when there is lack of communication and often we replaced it with "Presumptuous". Result : Argument due to misunderstanding, isn't that our experience most of the times? Just like the Assurance of Salvation, once we are saved, WE ARE SAVED! of course our Lord has paid the price for His church, HIS LIVES. Likewise, we, husband not only we have to assure our wife our marriage vow before God and before men, we also have to give ourselves to our wife in order to win her confidence and trust.

May our Good Lord Jesus blessed all His children.

posted by Lighthouse @ 2:23 PM