Friday, July 11, 2008

Angry

Often in marriage we get angry because something our spouse says or does embarrasses us. Something they fail to do irritates us. We start thinking, “I can’t depend on her for anything. She doesn’t love me. If she loved me, she would not let this happen.”
When you are angry, think before you act. Make sure you have all of the facts, and pray f
or wisdom.
The bible says : Eph 4:26 "BE ANGRY, AND DO NOT SIN": do not let the sun go down on your wrath,

Learn to communicate, talk it out before you enter into the next phrase : That is Quarrel. And if you have quarrel, do not hold the grudge, silent war for too long. I always have this picture in my mine whenever i quarrel with my wife, that is if i do not settle peace with her fast, imagine if the Lord were to take her away from me, i will have to hold this guilt forever. So i will always tried to settle fast and quick. May the Peace of God be with your family and your loved ones. Be Blessed.