Need and Want
Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.
But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT
But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.
Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.
Praying with your spouse
Dear beloved saints, Be of good cheer!
This morning i was reminded by my wife to pray together, and Praise the Lord, we did. I thank God for her being my helpmate. And i thank God to use her to remind me the important of praying together. I do not know how many of us have stop praying together with our spouse. Pls recover. Perhaps you are in the mist of quarrel, in the mist of breaking down, in the mist of not talking to one another or in the mist of restoring your marriage. In fact, the more your should come together and pray. I know it is not easy as you might say : "How to pray, i am still boiling with me". I assured you, the more you pray together, the lesser will be the conflict with one another, cause when both of you learn to commit your worry and problems to GOD, you will see that both of you are going thru the difficulties as ONE and not individual, and most of all, not "pointing finger" as each others. Isn't how a quarrel started? One of the secret of successful marriage is to come together and pray. Be Blessed!
